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textingEvery girl has laid in bed before waiting for that text message to come from their one true love. When it finally arrives in the inbox, the expectations are so high. Did he enjoy our date? Is he going to ask me out on another one? The emotions run high when waiting for these text messages. When you're going to take the plunge and send your lady a text, make it worth her while with these few tips.

Number one:  Greet her in a way that seems like you want to talk to her. A "Hey, what's up" is the perfect way to start the conversation while making it seem like you are intrigued.

Number two: Flatter her from the beginning. No, do not go off about how she is the most beautiful person you have ever laid eyes on and you want to marry her. Just begin with something settle like, "You looked really great last night at the bar." A phrase like this will let her know that you are definitely interested and that a connection is forming between the two of you.

Number three: do not keep the conversation going just to text her. Keep her on the edge. Don't continue to text her words like "so" or "well" just so that you can keep texting. People have lives, jobs, and responsibilities, and do not have time to just sit around and text on their phone 24/7. You want to attract the woman, not scare her away because you are being a nuisance. Number four: end the conversation on a good note. Do not just say "okay bye." Make yourself seem interesting! "I'm really looking forward to seeing you Saturday night" or "Good luck on your finals, I'll be thinking of you."

This will make your lover want it to be Saturday night already. The overall key is to make sure you sound interested in her but at the same time not desperate. Do not come off as the weirdo that lives in his mom's basement and cannot find a date. Come off as the well- educated businessman who would like to go out and have drinks with you. It is all about the representation of you. I understand that texting is a form of art these days, and can make or break a relationship. You have to find the happy medium of selling yourself even if you are behind technology.

If a girl if questionable about her date just because of how he texted her, then she will not give him a chance when the real date comes. You have to show yourself in those few little messages in order to get the girl in the end. Now that you have gotten your woman's number, take these steps and hints in order to secure that date and make yourself seem like the great person and date that you are!.

If a woman gives you her phone number it means that she wants to get in touch with you You don't have to find all the perfect words every time, just keep it playful and lighthearted. Making a girl smile when she sees your text is the key to how to make her feel attracted to you

Your first text is often the most important text. Her initial impression about you will depend a lot on that text. And if it sucks, it's probably game over for you. Let's take a look at few things that can help you attract a woman.

  1. Always keep the texts sweet, meaningful and short. You can remember it this way - SMS. Don't over complicate things and don't make it too plain. Type short messages, that way you'd be less predictable and she would be eager to know what's coming next. Make yourself look childish or innocent at times but don't make it look immature.
  2. Don't give in too easily. Take your time to reply to her texts. This will not only help you to reply with meaningful texts but also make her miss you
  3. Tease her time to time Make fun of her and at times. This will show that you're not a suck-up and that you're confident with women. A poke directed in a playful manner might just make her laugh.
  4. Use emoticons wisely. No matter how playful you are, it's always difficult to convey that playfulness trough text. So use emoticons to mean what you feel about that particular reply. Learn the difference between the emoticons. The difference between "I went to a party last night. a" and "I went to a party last night. :)" is quite a lot.
  5. Share your funny stories if there's any tell her stories that are funny and keep an eye on how she replies to them. If her replies are positive and intended to be fun she likes your stories. If it is otherwise, try skipping your story and start talking about something else. You may ask her about share one or two stories of her
  6. Pay attention to the small details. Read her texts carefully and remember the little things in it She will definitely appreciate if you can carry on with the tiny details when they come up later.
  7. Time management is important. If she has given you her number you probably have an idea about her workplace or studies. Never text when it's difficult for her to reply. Avoid texting during her work or class, there's every possibility that she wouldn't like it But you can leave a message asking her to get back to you whenever she's free. And if she finds you important she will get back to you.
  8. Role play can be a doorway to new and exciting things. It takes time to get to the stage where you can role play with her. Whether it's pretending to be a boyfriend and girlfriend headed toward breakup or a guy helping a new girl settle in a college - bantering through made-up role play is fun. There are little things that can make her smile or giggle too. Like after a hectic day she says she's tired, you can ask her if she needs a hug. And you can type in something like "A tight her for the beautiful girl." if she says yes. This is a very bold initiative which will make her think you're confident enough around women. But don't you ever take this fast. Start with grabbing hands, then perhaps hugs, kiss on the cheeks and then lips. There's no reason be gung-ho with her Take it as slow as you can. Going fast in this stage will only make her think you're a pervert.
  9. For more in depth techniques, check out attract women report.

Make her come to you. Like I said, don't give in too easily. Don't be desperate and try not to show that you're giving too much of an effort. You can joke about how the two of you will never be right person for each other. Pushing away like this will definitely create a space for the girl to chase you

After talking to her for few days you'd get to know if she's open to people or not Most girls live within a shell of decency, especially when talking to just-an-acquaintance. Either you can get into that shell and be decent with her the whole time or slowly you can bring her out of her shell and make yourself her comfort zone.

message_first_date4027Most of the guys are unsure about sending a text or calling a girl whom they met recently because there is always that dilemma in the mind regarding what the girl will prefer.

Any guy who is looking to approach a girl whom he met recently should be able to rightly remember and recall all possible facts about the girl. Facts such as how often did she use her phone? or how often did her phone beep?, because this helps the guy to know about the girl's behavior regarding use of phone. And if the girl's phone beep's often or if she takes her phone out usually, then we can assume that the girl is a phone-lover and spends maximum time on her phone. In such a case, the guy does not have to worry about waiting long for a reply from the girl and should definitely text the girl.

I would prefer guys sending text to girls they have recently met, because this medium of communication helps to avoid moments which make a guy less interesting. Communicating with a girl whom you have just met, needs you to initially know more about the girl and in reciprocity make the girl know more about you

Calling a recently met girl leads a guy to moments where he is not sure about what should he probably talk about, and while calling a guys does not get the leisure of time There has to be an instant reply and in such situations the chances of making a mistake are very high as compared to sending a text. Text messaging provides the guy some time to think which increases the chance of him impressing the girl more

Text messaging helps to build the excitement and curiosity for both the guy and girl in the starting phase which is very important for the relationship to be exciting. For an example- a guy texts a girl- How about we meet for a coffee tomorrow? Now the girl, has enough time to think about it and make the right decision rather than replying abruptly. At the same time the guy is left in anticipation of an affirmative reply which builds the excitement. But if the guy would have called and asked the same thing, the communication is less exciting and more abrupt which generally leads to the girl making some blunt reason and denying.

In my view, to forge a relationship with a recently met girl a guy should initially text the girl and know more about her As the girl gets used to talking to the guy, the possibility of the girl getting negative perceptions about the guy go down. But in the initial phase there are very high chances of the girl looking at the activities of the guy negatively.

Therefore, to avoid awkward silent moments during a call and to quickly know about each other a guy should text a girl he recently met.

Writing-a-text-message-007Most men normally find it difficult to seduce girls, although it is not easy to know it because they don't normally come back to tell the story. The problem could be on the fact that sometimes it becomes difficult for you to verbally express yourself and so it is easier to text that to physically present yourself there and say something. Here are tips on what to say when texting girls:

  1. Introduce yourself to the lady especially if your sure she might not recognize you very well It is generally advisable that you introduce yourself wherever you send any message to anybody. You should not just assume that she knows you Be polite in your introduction because this will be bringing out who you actually are Describe yourself well plus where, probably, you might have met. Make sure she has all the details of your physical look- jog her memory.
  2. Try seeking to know how her day was Even though it is certain that you will not know about her day before putting your message across, her attention will be paid to the fact that someone is caring and would want to know much about how good or frustration her day was
  3. State why you have chosen to text her rather than make a call. Do not appear to be coward as you do this and also do not be so serious, try to be a bit funny because ladies like things which cause them to laugh or smile. Say things "I wanted to confirm whether or not you are free before I make a call and may be if you are busy I can book an appointment for a later date." "I just first wanted to confirm if this number I was given by a friend is actually yours, please confirm for there is something I need to share with you."
  4. Do not say everything you want through the text at once. Produce your points on an 'installment' basis. Let it be a conversation where you are able to hear her thoughts too. Use the words like, "Kindly confirm receipt", kindly reply." It is good to use kind words. When you realize she is not answering then you will have to pause a bit before you proceed with sending more texts because sometimes she might be busy somewhere or could have just decided to ignore you
  5. Close the conversation with soft kind words which will make her think about what kind of a person you are Even if she did not treat you well during that texting conversation, it does not mean that she did not agree with everything you were saying! Just let you closing remarks show that you are a good and a humble man.

Writing-text-messageYou're sitting at the bar, sipping on your martini (shaken not stirred), taking a deep relaxing breath after a long day at work. As you loosen your tie you look to your right and you spot her Eye contact is made, smiles are exchanged, and across the bar flirtation begins. You buy her a drink and 5 minutes later she is sitting next to you You engage in great conversation and it seems like she's really into you.

A few drinks later and she is on her way out the door and you have her phone number in your phone (of course she grabbed your phone and put her number in there herself.) So, now what ? People don't make phone calls anymore, our world is ruled by text messages and emails. How long do you wait to send a text and what do you say to a woman you just met over a text message without deleting it 16 times before hitting the send button? Here are a few tips and tricks for texting that woman you just met:

  1. Throw the idea of the "3 Day Rule" right out the window. Thanks to Vince Vaughn and the movie "Swingers" men have been using this tactic for years now first, it was NEVER a good idea. The only reason that men have gotten away with it for so long is because women just got used to the "rule." However, as communication changes and dating revolves around technology now is the time to throw those silly old rules out and rewrite the dating handbook. Half way through the workday sends a funny, light-hearted text. Something like "maybe I should have waited for that after work drink until today." How fast she responds is not necessarily reflective of her feelings towards you as she IS at work. But, when she does respond, there is always a chance she'll respond with "me too, meet you there at 6." You win.
  2. But what if she texts me first? This is actually the preferable thing. Why, you ask? Well, because it relieves you of all pressure. She is in charge of starting a conversation that will keep you interested long enough to kill some time at work. Also, it shows you that she was thinking about you too. You weren't the only one at work wondering if they should text or not No matter what she texts you, pretend that it is the night before and she is sitting next to you and she asks you that question. When you text back, answer the question as if you would answer it if she was sitting right in front of you. Don't be shy. Be yourself. She is already interested in you, you already took care of the hard work. Now, sit back and reap the rewards of being awesome.
  3. Avoid the emoji and "text lingo" curse. Unless you're texting Kevin Hart or you are Kevin Hart, not everything she writes OR you write is funny; therefore, "LOL" doesn't belong in every single text message. A randomly inserted LOL makes a girl smile as you have recognized her wit; 25 LOL's and she just rolls her eyes at your inability to write something slightly more substantial. Also, watch out for the 🙂 😛 and :). Though those all make a girl smile, too many of them places you directly into the friend zone.

Follow these 3 simple tips and you will find yourself closing in on date 2 in no time at all

post-8There are four ways through which one can uphold flirt while writing a text. The three ways are as listed below.

v Have a flirt in the Introduction v Crush the attention of the reader v Have a strong finish v Have a flirty message in the text

In this context, we shall elucidate the above methods while highlighting means to attain them.

Having a Flirt Introduction

The way you begin to write your text ought to be beguiling and must attract the mind of the text reader. To attain this factor, consider the following tips.

o Be creative: It is vital that you stay original while writing a text to someone you want to impress. Be creative enough to create a text that speaks about what you mind is thinking. Use best techniques of attracting the mind of your reader while maintaining best styles.

o Ask Questions: asking questions is a way to flirt and impress your reader. For preeminent results, ask simple and open-ended questions. However, don't ask too silly and easy questions that are boring.

o Check on Grammar: you must keenly read through the entire text and make changes where there are grammar problems. Check on punctuation and sentence arrangement before sending the text message.

Crush the Attention of the Reader

Crush with the readers mind and make him or her interested in the text. Maintain simplicity and implement the following tips.

o Tease Your Text: make your text enjoyable to read and use some sensitive jokes. This helps you attract reader's mind.

o Show Some Sense of Care: if you are writing to a friend or lover, you ought to show him or her some sense of care.

o Evade Being Naughty: you should use an obedient language that shows that you respect the reader of the text.

o Don't Be Excessively Eager: you need to give the reader humble time to go through the text and reply back. Make sure that you don't request reply frequently.

Have a Strong Finish

Uphold a good finishing techniques and present best ideas at the end. Execute best finishing techniques like leaving a note or comment about the person. Remember to always thank him or her for taking time to read through your text.

Have a Flirty Message in the Text

Give the reader a reason to read your text. Make some reasonable conclusions and present to him or her some vital facts.


You should be creative and must maintain best writing techniques. Most important use the above tips for best results.